Divorcing Nudge #1: Protect Your Sweeties From the Loyalty Guilt Trap
Divorcing Nudge #2: Teach Your Children to Protect Their Eyes and Ears
Divorcing Nudge #3: Everything You Do with Your Attorney Costs Something
Divorcing Nudge #4: Purposefully Create 2 Whole Homes for Your Children
Do your best to make the second home look warm and inviting too. Often home #2 is an apartment or smaller house. Smaller spaces can still feel warm and family friendly. Maybe allow older children to help you pick out bedroom themes. Making mindful decisions about creating a second home for your children can help you decide what routines and structures to put in place. Home at mom's and home at dad's is the key. When children feel like visitors, it is hard for them to relax and renew.
When to Seek Professional Support During a Divorce
Gabrielle Anderson is the Director and a Therapist at the Family Therapy Center of Northern Virginia, llc
She and the other team members can be contacted directly from the Center's Meet the Team page.